Is my family messed up?

The eldest sibling has been a role model for the rest of you so I woyld say you all need to hava serious look at yourselves and decide where you want your life to go. Life is too short to spend wasting. As for your sister who gor mrried and had a baby. She seems to be fine . Just because she settled down young doesnt make her messed up if anything she probably did the right thing or she could have ended up going down the same path as you all did. Everyone is different some people are weak this seems to describe you and your siblings. Try and be stronger remember what doesmt kill you makes you stronger use your experiences to improve your future. Dont let life get tou down and when you feel low think of the people you have in your life who are stable turn to them. Talk to a doctor about your problems. Never just lay down and take what life throws at you stand up and be counted show what you are worth. you can turn your ife around all you have to do is believe in yourself. I was bulemic for years I cant help you with anorexia as I dont think. Eating disorder ever completely goes away you just need to learn to control it. Take care and be happy things can get better you just have to stop making excuses and go get what you want out of life